Over the past couple of months I’ve been going through the
process of applying for a Green Card for Hayden, and I can’t believe how
transparent, efficient and straightforward the whole endeavour has been. OH
WAIT. NO IT’S NOT! First was an application (entitled “Form DS 462-NA QPR” or
some similar nonsense) that was sent to Chicago, on which I had to type our
names and birthdays about 10 times. This was followed by the delightful “Affidavit
1040BZQ X215” that was mailed to a different address in New Hampshire, which
included my tax return, proof of income and a sworn statement that Hayden won’t
abuse food stamps or other government assistance. Today I’m filing what will
hopefully be the last form, including passport photos and Hayden’s police
background check. This will probably be pushed around a few desks before it
gets processed.
I sometimes get frustrated and can’t help but think about
how things would have been much easier if I had just taken an internship with
Seattle Opera or Grand Teton Music Festival four years ago. In the midst of
this whole mess, I came across an article that reminded me of why I think it’s
worth it. It’s written by an Australian who has lived in America for several
years – she explains the feeling better than I ever could: Link to article